Be careful about what words you are speaking, because YOU are always listening. Today I want to share with you 7 words to avoid while manifesting.
Words have power. Every word we speak is a mantra, and we’re always manifesting because we are always speaking and the Universe is always listening.
The words that we say to ourselves on a day-to-day basis are what we keep on attracting and manifesting even without our knowing.
We say we want to attract things. We say we want to have the best life, but I often notice that people don’t match their words with their thoughts, or their words don’t match their actions.
The most important thing while manifesting is to first be careful and mindful of our speech and the words that we’re using.
Why words are important while manifesting
If you use the right words you are more likely to manifest what you desire faster.
Whereas if you use the wrong words while manifesting, you will never be able to manifest anything you truly desire, even if you do everything else right.
It is what you end up saying casually, or even jokingly, what words you are believing, that you end up speaking about it with your friends, family and yourself, that will attract what you want.
So now it’s time to be intentional with our words to match the life and reality we want to attract.
Words to avoid while manifesting
On this note, here are some words you should avoid when manifesting.
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1. Too big
We desire something and want something to happen in our lives, but we feel that this is too big to happen.
We tell ourselves deep inside that maybe this is too big to manifest and we don’t fully believe that the Universe will give it to us and that we’ll have it.
When we say something is too big, we believe that it is impossible to happen and that we don’t fully trust the Universe.
But remember, nothing is too big for the Universe.
The Universe is infinite and expanding. The Universe is most excited when you set goals that are too big. The Universe wants you to set impossible dreams and be crazy and stubborn enough to believe in them.
The Universe is bored because you have been playing small and because you have been setting too small dreams and intentions.
The Universe’s infinite intelligence is what is moving the world.
It has created the sun and the wind. Every flower born, every seed that grows into a big magnificent tree is because of the invisible power of the Universe. Every breath that we take and every newborn that comes to life, too, is a manifestation of the Universe.
We are all manifestations of the Universe and we too have the same power within us.
Anything can be manifested. Nothing is too big. So quit saying that your dreams are too big to be manifested.
It should be too big because that is what will make you excited.
Instead of doubting, be excited about what a big life you will have and match that vibrational energy.
2. Don’t want
When we want to start manifesting, we get excited and we list out the things that we want.
But slowly our focus starts to go towards what we don’t want.
You keep saying, “I don’t want him to behave this way”
“I don’t want this headache”
“I don’t want this”
“I don’t want that”
So stop saying you don’t want to be broke, you don’t want to be so miserable, you don’t want a backache, you don’t want to be poor anymore, you don’t a bad relationship, you don’t want a life like this.
The Universe only gives you what you keep focusing on.
Reassess what you have been focusing on.
If your focus is on what you don’t want to happen in your life, the Universe will give you more of what you don’t want because that is what you have been focusing so sincerely on.
Until you keep on complaining about what you don’t want, you will always give the energy of lack and ungratefulness.
Quit talking in the negative and reframe the phrases and sentences that you speak.
Instead, start focusing on what you DO want.
And be thankful for all the things that you Do Have in the present.
That will be the biggest force that will propel you towards the life that you do want.
P.S 60 Things to be grateful for in life
3. Can’t
Another word to avoid is, “Can’t”
Till the time you say, “I can’t do this”
“I can’t have this”
“This can’t happen”
“I can’t make this work”
These words with “Can’t” in it is what will forever block your manifestation.
The word “Can’t” suggests that you don’t believe it will happen.
You are already saying it is never going to happen and Never is a strong word and belief too.
So if your words are such that you believe that it is impossible, how can it ever happen?
Start saying “I can” and “this can” and believe in your abilities and potential.
You are much more strong than you realize.
4. Why
The fourth word to avoid is ‘why’. And here are some examples of it,
“Why is this not happening?”
“Why does this always happen to me?”
“Why did this happen?”
“Why don’t I ever get what I want”
“Why don’t I ever get lucky?”
The more you focus on why, the more you will go farther from how.
The reason why something always happens to you is because you have kept on repeating and believing that “This always happens to me” and so by the law of attraction, you keep attracting those things.
Recently, when we were on our family vacation to Goa, one of my far-aunt who was on the trip with us, all of a sudden fell just when we were almost 3 feet away from our hotel after returning from our day’s trip happily singing and enjoying.
At first, we thought it was minor, but then it started panicking a lot and she had to be taken to the hospital and the doctor said she needed an immediate operation.
Being away from home and already having many other diseases, she had to be taken home in the morning flight and my Uncle had to take her home.
So both had to return home and cancel their trip in the middle.
Till the morning when we were looking after her and tending to her broken wrist, that’s when I heard some of the words that she spoke.
She was continuously saying “I don’t know why, but the moment I try to enjoy and have fun, something or the other bad happens”
“I never get to enjoy my time”
“I am always punished. I don’t know why this always happens to me”
And she felt guilty as if she had done anything wrong.
I know nobody would like to attract an accident or something bad, but our words do have power and until we change what we say and believe, we will keep attracting the things that we don’t want.
Because my aunt believed that she never gets to enjoy, something or the other would happen subconsciously, that is what happened.
Whereas my uncle who had to go along with her in the middle of the trip, had been constantly saying, “I am so tired with all the ladies on the trip. I just want to go home now. Next time I am never coming on an all-ladies party”
He said it jokingly, but guess the Universe is always listening.
5. When
Another word to avoid when manifesting is ‘when’
“When is this going to happen?”
“When am I going to get it?”
“When will this ever work out?”
These words of “when” suggest impatience and impatience suggests doubt and you can never manifest with a doubtful heart.
Quit with the when. Let go and accept that whatever will happen will happen at the right time for you.
The flower is never eager to bloom in one day.
The peepal seed is not impatient to become a tree in one year.
The sun is not impatient to rise in 2 hours.
The river is not tired of flowing till when it meets the ocean.
So stop being impatient and let things unfold at their own pace and time.
Follow the rhythm of nature.
If you stop worrying about the when and start enjoying and living the present, the how and when will take care of its own.
Let the Universe find the right time for you while you enjoy what there is to enjoy.
6. Maybe
If you say, “Maybe this is what I want”
“Maybe this might happen”
Or similar to words like maybe, if you say, “Someday I will have this”
“I kind of want that”
“I think maybe this might work out”
“I sort of want this to happen”
These words such as maybe, might, sort of, and kind of all suggest that you don’t care enough. That doesn’t much matter to you if you have it or if you don’t.
You still don’t fully believe that you’ll have it or you still don’t want what is it that you would like to receive.
You can never manifest with a ‘maybe’, ‘kind of’, ‘sort of’ attitude.
Remember, the world is not changed by the people who kind of- sort of care. The world is changed by the people who wildly, madly and rationally care.
So quit being indecisive. Decide what you want. Believe you can have it and then work for it. Truly care. And Truly believe.
7. Unlucky
Quit using limiting words that create a kind of victim mentality and impossible mentality such as unlucky, unfortunate, cursed, doomed, unfavourable, etc.
Words like this block our good fortune and it ends up becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If you think you are unlucky, and deeply believe it to be so, you will always attract circumstances that will make you reinforce that belief.
If you think you are unfortunate and only unfortunate events come into your life, it is because of that you attract events that seem unfortunate.
Quit using those words and you will break the spell of curse or whatever that has been looming over you that causes misfortune.
You create your luck by the words that you say to yourself and believe.
The Universe is always listening to you and nodding its head, “Yes, you’re right.”
If you believe you don’t have luck and keep saying so, the Universe too starts to say, “Yes, you’re right” and gives you more of those.
Begin saying, “I am so lucky”, “I always have my way”, “I get anything I want with ease”, and “Doors always open right for me”, and the Universe will nod its head again and say, “Yes you’re right!” And give you more things that make you feel lucky!
So these were the words to avoid while manifesting.
What to say when manifesting
- “I can get anything I desire and I am worthy of every bit of it”
- “I can make the impossible possible”
- “I am so lucky”
- “I am creating the life of my dreams”
- “Every day what I am seeking is coming to me’
- “I attract the highest good into my life”
- “I live my life aligned with the Universe”
- “I get everything effortlessly”
- “There is no competition and everyone is waiting for my services because I serve them their highest good.”
- “Everything comes to me at the divine right time”
Essentially, the words you use and speak every day are like spells you cast upon the universe.
We all have the power inside us. It’s like all of us are magicians by nature.
We cast spells with the words that we use, that’s why they are called ‘Spellings’.
Use your words carefully and mindfully and work in sync with the Universe.
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