Every woman wants to be attractive. But to truly be attractive, it is more than just trying to look attractive. It is about BEING attractive.
Of course, one can use expensive beauty products, do cosmetic surgery, go to the gym and do everything they can, to be attractive and there is no harm in doing and following these trends.
But gone are the days when a woman with a beautiful zero-size body, beautiful face and beautiful skin were the only criteria to be considered attractive.
Anybody can become attractive by cultivating the right habits and behaviours.
But one thing, before I tell you the habits that truly make a woman attractive, you don’t have to try SO HARD to be attractive.
Just be who you are and keep working on yourself and in your growth.
You don’t want to be attractive in order to attract anyone or please anyone. You just become who you truly are and you bring out the most attractive self on your own without trying.
So here are 10 simple, but life-transforming habits of women who are always attractive.
1. She is true to herself
“The purpose of a rose is to be a rose. Your purpose is to be yourself. You don’t have to run anywhere to become someone else. You are wonderful just as you are.”
Thich nhat hanh
To be truly attractive, you just have to be who you are. And in being yourself, you will naturally become your most awesome and most attractive self who is strong, solid, calm, compassionate and loving.
I once read somewhere that if we only know who we truly are, we would fall to our knees in awe and magic.
Social media might give you false notions of how you should look, talk, have and be, but do not let it fool you and make you feel less about yourself.
Your only mission here on Earth is to become who you truly are.
An attractive woman will seek inspiration from others but will never try to be like them.
Instead, she adds to their qualities and improves herself.
2. Attractive women have a growth mindset
An attractive woman has a growth mindset compared to others who have a fixed and lacking mindset which is overly unattractive.
Here are examples of the kind of growth mindset she has compared to others with fixed mindset.
- Growth Mindset: She expects challenges and is willing to overcome them
Fixed mindset: They hate challenges and don’t want to get outside of their comfort zone and then keep lamenting, why is life so boring and dull. - Growth Mindset: She does not blame situations, circumstances and people and instead resolves to take full responsibility towards her life.
Fixed Mindset: They blame others and their particular circumstances and situations for how their life is currently and keep waiting for the perfect moment to fall in love with life and better their situation. They fail to take responsibility. - Growth Mindset: She seeks to become a lifelong learner and a student of life, learning and applying the things she didn’t know earlier. She knows that there is nothing that cannot be learned.
Fixed Mindset: They fail to try new things because they think they don’t know anything about it. They don’t want to learn and try new things. - Growth Mindset: She embraces her mistakes and seeks to learn from them instead of criticizing and blaming herself. She focuses on the Now and lets go of the past.
Fixed Mindset: She is fixed on the mistakes she made in the past and thinks she is doomed and cannot do better. (but that is all false)
Other Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset examples
3. She has a compassionate nature
These days we rarely find people with a compassionate heart.
But know that there is compassion in each one of us and we all can grow the flower of compassion in our hearts.
To be truly attractive, practice compassion. Practice kindness in your daily life.
Give it to someone who needs it. Do not judge people. Instead, give them kindness and compassion.
When your heart is full of compassion, it will reflect on your face. Your eyes will sparkle and your smile will be truly genuine.
You will look different from the rest and when you are different in the crowd, you will be noticed.
4. They are humorous
Tragedy and comedy have the same storyline. It just depends on the way we view them.
Humorous is not only about being funny but to be able to find fun in everything.
Attractive women are never hard on themselves.
They take life with fun and laughter. She uses her humour in every situation. She doesn’t take this life too seriously, after all, we are all just visitors here.
She takes life lightly and regards things not going her way as a joke. She shares her joy and happiness and looks to see the humour in life situations.
5. Attractive women are positive
Attractive women take every situation in a positive way.
She asks, How is this working ‘for me’ instead of ‘against me’ even when things are not particularly going her way?
Instead of thinking how things could go wrong, she thinks, what if it all goes right and works out in the end?
They don’t speak negatively about themselves or anything because they know what they speak, attracts.
She feeds positive thoughts into her mind with good books and good content and this in turn helps her become a positive thinker.
6. An attractive woman is ambitious
Ambition makes a woman truly attractive.
An attractive woman has dreams and ambitions and works for it.
She challenges herself and works hard to achieve her goals.
She also knows that it is not only about achieving big goals, but achieving small things in her day-to-day life by being thankful, happy and cheerful in her daily work.
She works for her ambition without neglecting her own well-being and others.
7. An attractive woman is bold
An attractive woman is bold. She is not afraid because she always walks the path of truth and righteousness.
She is not afraid to speak up and stand up for her rights. And this makes her even more attractive.
When you move your life with truth and a positive attitude, there is nothing to be afraid of.
You don’t have to try hard to be bold.
If the way you live your life is truly satisfying you and you are living true to yourself, that itself will make you bold automatically.
Your way of life will make you bold and your confidence will be your armour. So wear it wherever you go.
8. She is Cheerful
Nobody likes to be around sad and grumpy people who are always complaining.
People naturally gravitate towards and fall in love with happy, funny and cheerful people.
A cheerful face can attract anybody.
The attractive woman knows this law of attraction.
So always wear a smile on your face. And have a genuine smile when you give it to someone. You look beautiful too.
9. Attractive women are respectful
Your behaviour and the way you treat others reflects on your face more than anything else.
If you are angry and disrespectful to others, you will never have an attractive face.
No wonder how beautiful you are, how perfect body you have, if you treat others with disrespect you will lose everything.
We must learn to respect others for who they are because they are humans.
We must also respect animals because they too have a life.
You will be known most for your behaviour with people.
Attractive and truly successful people behave the same way, whether they are meeting the wealthiest businessman or a sweeper.
That is the biggest mark of an attractive person, whether a man or a woman.
10. They value self-care
Last but not least, it is very attractive to make a habit of self-care.
We woman as we age, we forget that maintenance and care is needed for everything.
We take care of everyone but forget to take care of ourselves.
But if you become careless about taking care of yourself, you will soon lose your confidence and charm too.
This will eventually make you unnoticeable to the people around you and your loved ones might also start to take you for granted.
They do so only because you have also started to take yourself for granted.
If you want to forever remain an attractive woman, take care of your skin, your body, your face and also your mind, your habits and keep making yourself turn into your highest version.
Nothing is more attractive than a woman who knows how to take care of herself on her own and who seeks to keep improving.
Final Thoughts on Habits of Attractive Women
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Every woman is attractive in her own way.
You are unique in your own way from the rest of the world. Nobody can be as attractive as you.
Find yourself and bring it out. You will attract everyone around.
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