A high-value woman adds value in everything she does and how she lives her life is different than the rest.
What sets a woman apart? It is the value she sees in herself. Not the value others give her.
Sometimes you see a woman so secure in herself and you wonder how they do life.
You want to know how they are the way they are. You are charmed by them and get inspired by them.
Why be a High-Value Woman
Even if you haven’t met such a woman in real life, you can be one.
And if you haven’t met a high-value woman, it’s all the more important that you be one.
Because we need more women who see and treat themselves highly.
We need more women who put their self-respect high and who are crazy enough to dream and live out their aspirations.
High-value women can change the world, and if not the whole world, they can definitely change their own little world- their family, their relationships, their surroundings, their work and how they show up for each of them.
Being of high value creates positive ripple effects in society and adds happiness to one’s life.
So in this post, I want to share 10 traits of high-value women that set them apart.
What is a high-value woman?
A high-value woman is unapologetically herself and has high standards for herself.
She won’t ever settle for less than she deserves, whether in relationships, career or life.
She treats herself with dignity, and respect and is proud of how far she has come.
She takes full responsibility for her life, no matter what and is always ready to start afresh.
She doesn’t let other people’s narratives define her self-worth and how she sees herself.
High value is not something a man defines for a woman.
High value is not determined by how other people see her, but by how she sees herself.
A high-value woman is someone who vows to create a life and live a life that feels good for her and vows to give the best life to herself.
Here are the 10 best traits of a high value woman.
10 Traits of a High-Value Woman
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1. She has high self-respect
For a high value woman, self-respect is the most important thing.
She has confidence in herself and believes she is truly worthy.
She sees herself highly not because she is egoistic, but because she has learned to believe in her worth and see herself as her best friend.
Because she respects herself, she is cautious with the way she speaks to herself.
She no longer criticizes herself and blames herself for every minor mistake. Instead, she is her own cheerleader and uses positive affirmations every day.
She also treats herself with respect because she sees herself as a woman of dignity and her actions are always dignified.
She won’t keep waiting for when people will choose her or beg them to stay.
She won’t ever degrade herself and will know when to walk away from the things that don’t add value to her life.
Thus because she respects herself, she commands respect from others and won’t ever tolerate disrespect.
Others thus come to naturally respect her and treat her with the same respect and kindness she gives herself.
2. She has goals and ambitions
She is not an ordinary woman. She is a woman with clear goals and ambitions.
She doesn’t let the idea of normal get in the way.
She doesn’t let the idea of reality stop her from having crazy dreams.
She dares to dream and for her dreams and ambitions, she sets clear goals that she works on herself every day.
She might work for others, but most importantly, she works for herself and works on herself- her mindset, her learnings, her craft and makes a plan for realising her goals.
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3. She has a growth mindset
A high value woman is someone with a growth mindset.
She believes that if there is something she does not know how to do, she is certain that she can learn it and by practising it, she can be perfect at it eventually.
She doesn’t look for perfection right away but focuses more on progress.
And this is what a growth mindset is.
A growth mindset is the idea that abilities, intelligence, and talents can be developed through dedication, effort, and perseverance.
A high-value woman is no longer stuck by her limitations and does not have a fixed mindset.
She is happy with other people’s success because she knows that other people’s success doesn’t block her from her own.
There is no competition for her. She carves her way and walks in her way.
She has high and noble aspirations and embraces the challenges along the way to get from point A to point B.
And this is what ultimately makes her reach her goals and ambitions.
4. She is confident
A high value woman is not confident that she can get everything done or confident that she knows everything. But instead, she is confident in her ability to learn and persevere.
She is not confident that everyone will like her, but she is confident in the sense that she will be okay even if they don’t.
How she sees herself is more important than how others see her.
How her life feels is more important than how it looks in front of other people.
A high-value woman is confident not in the sense that she has everything figured out, but in the sense that, even though she may not have everything figured out, she believes that anything is possible.
In the unknown, she has learned to look at the possibilities instead of lack.
She is confident not because she is fearless, but because she has come to understand that having fear does not tell anything about your capabilities.
She might be full of fear, but she will be confident enough to do it anyway.
5. She is self reliant
A high value woman is not someone who waits for Prince Charming to get things in her life.
She pays her bills on time and vows that she will give herself the life she dreams of.
She makes her way and she is self-reliant.
She stands on her own two feet and makes her happiness herself.
She doesn’t wait for validation or permission to get something done.
She loves her freedom and independence and won’t ever tolerate anyone who will try to take it away from her.
She knows how to create her happiness and knows that others can only aid her in her happiness, but cannot be the sole reason for their happiness.
She is self-reliant also in her happiness and has learned to create happiness out of nothing- from a long walk, from a painting, from music, from mindfulness, from gratitude and enjoying all the little pleasures of life.
She is not someone who will ask for favours to get things done or use illegitimate means to get her way.
She is practical and is a problem solver instead of a problem seeker.
She stays away from drama and people who cause drama because she knows that they are a big time waste.
But this does not mean that she doesn’t ask for help.
She asks for help when she needs to.
6. She is true to herself
A high value woman is not here to please anyone.
She is done with people pleasing and is now living true to herself.
Authenticity is what she aims for now.
She knows that she doesn’t have to try to be like anybody else and that her life doesn’t have to look like others.
This has eased so much burden from herself and she lives lightly now that she doesn’t try to pretend or try to fit in places where she never truly wanted to be.
She is done pleasing society and making her life look perfect.
She does what makes her happy and does not do what does not make her happy. And now, it has become that simple.
And in being herself, surprisingly she has found herself to be the most loving, most kind, most confident, and most secure than she had ever been before.
7. She practices self-love
Where some women are full of self-criticism and self-hate, a high value woman is full of self-love.
She has come a long way past the burdens of criticism and shame and has now learned to embrace her fully and give to herself the same love she would give to a friend she dearly loved.
She practices self-love in her actions through self-care.
Self-care is self-love is action.
She relaxes, she follows a routine, she is kind to herself, she takes care of her health and most importantly, she gives time to herself.
Time is the basic foundation of any relationship. If you don’t give each other time, no relationship can thrive.
And this rule also applies to our relationship with self.
A high value woman has come to understand this.
So she no longer neglects her needs and nourishes herself through self-care.
Thus by giving herself time and being fully nourished by her self-love, she then goes out to show up in the world in her daily life more happily with a sense of service instead of with a sense of obligation and burden.
8. She is kind and compassionate
A high value woman is kind and compassionate.
She is full of empathy and tries to live judgment-free as best as she can.
If she finds herself judging others, she quickly comes back to her senses and then again looks at the same person and situations with eyes of understanding and compassion.
She lives and lets live.
She knows that other people are not perfect, just like her and we’re all doing our best with what we know works for us.
She also tries to live a complain-free life and instead live a life of gratitude and blessings.
9. She engages in healthy habits
A high-value woman knows that the gap between where she is and where she wants to be can only be shortened by cultivating daily habits and engaging in a healthy lifestyle.
Just having goals and ambition is not enough. Changes need to be made at the lifestyle level to achieve them.
A high value woman ditches unhealthy habits and engages in good ones.
It is her habits that enabled her to change her life and she knows that this journey is one of continuous self-improvement.
10. She has strong principles in life
Lastly, a high value woman has strong principles in life. And because of this, she doesn’t get swayed away easily and is firm in her decisions.
Some of the strong principles all high-value women follow are:
- To be honest and never lie
- To be sincere in your work
- To take responsibility for one’s life instead of running away from problems
- To help others when the opportunity arises
- Treat everybody with dignity and respect and treat yourself the same
- To be fair and never cheat
- To give if you can give
- To treat everybody equally regardless of one’s position or status
- To always be humble
- To not tolerate disrespect of any kind
So these were the 10 best traits of high value women
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We all are women of high value. We just need to manifest our highest self in how we live life.
A high value woman is a continuous work in progress.
She is not perfect and she does not claim to be, but she is aware and she is conscious of the life she is living and she wants to live it the best way she can.
A high value woman is secure in herself and she attracts people around her who treat her with the same love and respect she gives to herself.
She is no longer engaged in toxic cycles or stuck in the past.
She only cares about the present because she knows that’s where all the changes can take place.
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Pramila Di, reading your blogs is a true inspiration for me. Its like i hear each and every word in your voice in my mind. Thank you for writing so beautifully to encourage us. May you keep growing more in life, your writing, aspirations and may you keep spreading smiles.
Thank you so much Anamika💕Your beautiful words really made my day🥰